Should people adopt children not of their own race?
With the seemingly scary world of private adoptions here in the States, many couples and individuals are turning to foreign lands and their overburdened orphanages. The paperwork, counselling, money, background checks, and time weed out potential baddies from the parenting pool as well as cement adoptions.
But what about those children here in our group homes and orphanages? Many children outside the infant the years wait impatiently for people to bring them into their homes and give them last names that stand for love and committment and security. And, sadly, many of these children are African-American boys.
In any case, whether it be an infant, Asian girl from China or an African American, male toddler from Tennessee....should a parent outside the child's race adopt him/her? Would a white mother be able to provide the cultural history for that child? Will the child lose part of his/her identity being immersed in a culture and surrounded by a race not of his/her own? Or are there too many children out there that have been abandoned and discarded, waiting for homes and love that color and culture do not matter?
I want to know your thoughts. I'm not swaying you with my opinions....yet.
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